Wednesday 3 July 2013

CAN A STYLIST DRESS YOU BETTER THAN YOU DRESS YOURSELF?



Beauty is defined by so many twists and perceptions, especially as constructed by folks such as designers, stylists, photographers, marketers, and lastly but most importantly, YOU. And even with so many tips and principles to consider, there are always days when nothing is working out.  Those off-days or drab days are the times when you wish that a “professional” someone exists to put something together and take away your misery.

The celebrity and model looks are very powerful images and mostly we fantasize (and copy) what they wear. It seems that they can afford to look better than you because of who they are… or what they have??? Who knows?

But, does a stylist know better than you? Or is it because fashion styling is their job (their bread and butter)? Is great fashion styling an in-born trait with some genetic number and code present in select human populations? Or is there a handed down generational (or family) legacy that differentiates your style from the next lady’s?

Well I can stick my neck out confidently to say that a pretty large proportion of ladies think that a stylist (employed or consulted) can dress them better than they would themselves. As believed, the stylist has received appropriate training as regards putting an outfit together, and with experience is better able to achieve looks that create lasting impressions, inclusive of current fashion trends and body type considerations.

A stylist is better able to capture work and lifestyle habits in giving fashion advice to his/her clients. They are also able to creatively use colors, prints, patterns, and accessories with effortless skill and work. For ladies with a heavy work schedule and who have to attend a lot of socializing functions, a stylist is a God-send, because s/he is able to cut out the stress of going from store-to-store to find just the outfit, as suits the occasion. For those on this side of the wall, convenience and ease of access is found with the stylist.




I daresay that without the stylist there will be little need for ladies to be as attentive to what they wear. Even with the cash strains and the obvious diversity of styling and clothing preferences, the undeniable and imaginative construct from a stylist cannot be underestimated. As a stylist detail is everything – each strand of hair, accessory, the show of skin, color, pattern and/or texture is playing a part in the powerful image story. It’s a breath-sweeping and lifting place to be able to spin past body shape and plain old stitches to produce a life of itself in inexpressible words of beauty and fashion.

As a stylist, my work is a life, an art and science of cutting through walls of people, place and time to bring forth a statement, only told by the clothes on your back… and admired by a waiting audience…



2 comments:

  1. I was going through some pictures from one of the popular events in Lagos and was stunned to see someone I know looking really awful. On a normal day she dresses well for her size, but the sylist she used for that event didn't do her any good.

    I do agree that stylists are God-sent for people who are always on the go, but in most occasions, I'd argue that most people can possibly dress themselves better.

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  2. Yes, a stylist can dress you better most times. Fashion thrives on the tangible. That old proverb
    “seeing is believing” is of crucial importance
    when it comes to clothing. But there’s a little
    piece of all of us men that wishes someone would
    do it for us — pick out an outfit, top to bottom,
    just like our mothers (perhaps regrettably) used
    to do for us in our elementary school years.
    Make sure you shop with someone with
    an eye for style - especially if you, don't have such and eye yourself! I hard an interview I was going to pick a
    gray pinstripe suit in a
    store and went looking for a typical
    white shirt and gray tie to go with it. A
    woman was suit-shopping for her son
    and I said, "Excuse me Ma, I have a little
    color blindness and want to make sure
    the things I'm buying match. She
    shook her head negatively at my shirt
    and tie choices and said, Let's really
    get you looking good in that nice suit."
    She ended up picking out a blue shirt
    and blue plus other colors tie. The
    combination's been a hit every time I
    wear it: I never going clothes
    shopping now without taking someone
    with an eye for style! If you don't have anyone to help? you can try CrossWord.

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